This has been my very first year online. “JamestheJust on Elance,” a brand that I accidentally created along with “The Average Genius,” both arose out of the ashes of a wrecked existence. I wish I was exaggerating.

This was no ordinary year – it’s been longer than 365 days for me. 2010 was a Pluto year, back when Pluto was a planet…

Phoenix

Better than that, though I am road-weary and still have my Converse on with my piggies poking out of the hole I’ve worn in ‘em:

This year is / has been a Phoenix year. 2010 marks both a beginning and an end for me in many ways. Sometimes I can’t decide if I’m being “reborn” in flames or about to turn into a cooked bird.

What 2010 Ended For Me

Employment. Ever. I tried writing this post many ways, but I can’t ignore this monumental, flaming ball of a white elephant, only much smellier.

I’ll encapsulate: I worked for about 3 years for a “family” business and proved to the world what a horrid, stupid idea that was. I am a huge Dave Ramsey fan, love the guy and cannot possibly commend him enough.

He writes about getting out of debt and becoming wealthy, all from a position of integrity (he’s a Christian but his principles are timeless and without a doubt effective). I bring him up because Dave always shudders at the thought of working for family…
Total Money Makeover
For good reason. Needless to say, I proved that this is indeed a salient warning – although I’m sure it doesn’t always end the way my situation did. I don’t want to go into more detail, but that was a cataclysmic event that affected my family and especially me as a man in a number of ways.

I’ll sum it up by saying my attitude in 2010 was

frustrated / angry / incredulous / Incredible Hulkish.

Where did it get me?

To the top of Google, making sales, and making decent money on Elance. It also taught me this: I don’t get bullied anymore. Done with that.

The bad news of all that is that I strained my marriage and family ties with my kids as much as possible, and it all stemmed out of frustration at a situation I couldn’t control.

Backed up into a corner, kicked while I was down and then spat on – and this is not me using colorful language, just painting a picture. This was 2010, the gritty underbelly of why I’m driven to make 2011 my 5 figures a month year (I mean, before the decimal point).

Why am I driven? Because I care about my family – and I hate begging my way around to make it.

You want to know the honest, gutter truth? Being backed into a corner and then unleashing your anger isn’t all that bad – as long as you take it out on the SERPs, and learn from the wounds.

What ended for me: being pushed around. Being bullied. Being worried. Being frustrated at stubborn mountains that won’t move out of my way – I’ll either climb them or plow through them with a bunker buster.
TOW Bunker Buster
I’m also done with being an employee – ever. Not a good, wholesome reason for it – more like, “I’m not going to be treated that way again and put someone in power over me if I can help it.”

What 2010 Began For Me

My 8th child – his birth began this year, and now he’s walking – and I get to see every single moment of this kid’s life.

Priceless.

Writing for MONEY? Score! Dream come true? Check.

Working from home = Freedom, or the first steps down that road. This is the biggie for me as you can tell from the foregoing, I don’t like to be trapped with my back up against the wall for some odd reason. Working for clients is great.

Writing for myself?

Takes the cake.

What I Learned

SEO.
Copywriting.
Freelancing.
Internet Marketing.
Blogging.
WordPress.

What I Need To Learn

Balancing family / work.
Time management.
Making more time off for playing with the kids, dating my wife every week.
How to remember what happened in 2010 so I never go back to those ashes, or repeat my mistakes.
How to incorporate watching “The Office” into my to-do list.
How to play poker with the kids since I bought the family poker set for Christmas…
How to keep normal hours…
How to exercise with my wife and kids regularly.
How to systematize what I’m doing so it’s not so frenetic.
How to add more pages every single week no matter what to my own properties – OR – backlink what I have published until it ranks in the top 3.
How to write less and make more. –> Read: PASSIVE INCOME
How to get paid what I’m worth – I can’t afford to be the bargain copywriter.

My big killer is really time management / time spent.

I’ve included the off time as a realization that I’m not the T-1000, I can’t keep working like this machine I’ve become. It’s burned me out and strained relationships around the house, not to mention pushed me to a dependence on Ibuprofen.Face of the machine

Not good.

Earlier this year, a reader emailed me and asked me to write a post on succeeding with Elance – I refused because at the time I was planning on busting out 100 sites in 10 days or something ridiculous (now I’m being fecetious but that’s the gist)…

I was planning on putting Elance behind me mid-year…

But I’m glad I didn’t, and I’m glad I didn’t write that post: I’ve picked the wrong jobs this year, or at least fit myself into an impossible-to-live budget writer mold.

I learned in 2010 how to write more and make less…ouch. Reality doesn’t bite, sometimes it bludgeons you with Thor’s hammer. I am really glad I didn’t write a post on making a career out of Elance…not yet, anyway.

You know what? I can’t afford to be Mr. Nice Writer – and I mean that not to sound cocky, it’s just the truth.

I have a large family, and when I started out this year I got a lot of jobs because I could do them at bargain prices (I had a full time job). Then I lost the job…and out of fear I didn’t raise my prices.

That was a colossal business mistake, but I’ve been firing my clients left and right so to speak – and don’t read me wrong, I don’t “fire” clients, but I raise prices or bid what I’m worth and I don’t close as many jobs.

That’s OK by me. People who know my skills or who know I’m not “just” a writer who knows grammar will be glad to pay me. People who can see I rank websites and then convert traffic into money in the bank – they know they’ll make their money in spades.

There is an actual ROI on what I write.
Elance Profile
It’s dawned on me: I think I can write. More than that: I can sell. I’m not a brash fella by trade, I hate that sort of “puff out chest, boast here” attitude…ugh!

At the same time, I can’t possibly afford what I’ve done this year – write all day and night long, some days I’ve logged 18 hours on these keys. It’s ugly. It needs to stop – and at the end of the day? I’ve worked that hard for budget jobs because I care more about writing than in spending time with my wife and kids – at least, that’s what it feels like.

I’ve prioritized work over family, at the end of the day.

That has to change. If for no other reason than the effect it has on my family life – it’s not worth it. Even if I had made 6 figures, work is not all there is.

You know what, though?

I met my goal for 2010

You all didn’t know I had set it but it was something my wife just recently reminded me of. My goal was to make $2,000 a month passively by the year’s end.

As Martha Danielle Natalie Susana Stewart says, “That’s a good thing!”

I (might) not make quite that much this month, but it will be close enough that I can smile about it. What that tells me is that in the ensuing weeks and months, to keep it up, I need to write like a machine for just a bit longer.

Then backlink. Then repeat with another page.

Where To In 2011?

I sort of gave this away, but I need to get more organized and treat this as a business – Yolanda has a list of 27 questions in her look back on 2010 that I found helpful, and I think there’s a bit of this in that post.

Time management has already begun, it’s as simple for me as using a calendar (quit laughing, I hate organizing schedules), writing out my goals, and now that I know my speed of writing, I can give more accurate, and profitable estimates.

What I plan to do is:

Make Amazon sales my first priority – I still haven’t followed through here with backlinking, hence my link wheel idea. And on that note – if I can monetize my links, I am going to reach my goals faster.

I want to be making $3k a month in Amazon alone by year’s end of 2011, as a LOW figure.

I’m taking off a month this next year in 2011 from all freelancing. In that month, I will make some serious headway by writing for my own private websites – I may even take a month off The Average Genius, which means: guest posts, please.

Send me your ideas and we’ll plan it out, but cut me some slack since I’ll be taking the month off when we get a tax return. Or so the plan goes (I can’t control the future). Send me your guest post ideas anyway, I can use them at some point.

With that month of concentrated effort, I should have made enough headway that when Google ranks the reviews, I’ll be able to take even more time off as the sales roll in…praying that works as I envision.

By the end of 2011…

My goal is $5k with Amazon, and $5k with CJ and another $1-2k with my other affiliate programs combined. My “low” tolerance will be $3k Amazon, $3k CJ and $1k with every other passive income.

So: $7,000-$12,000 a month in November / December of 2011 of passive income. That’s my big “8 ball, corner pocket” shot call.
8 Ball
I plan to publish my own ebook and have my own report for download posted here, with an email list of 1000 by year’s end. One of the funnest and most rewarding jobs this year was writing the book for MatthewDC at SEOSage.org – an IM guide for newbies that hopefully others find helpful.

That’s a goal that will mean I need to actually build a list, and I’m thinking I’ll do what I normally do: start off small with a budget plan and upgrade.

This means PHP List and a cheap subscription plugin – unless I can somehow get my hands on Subscribers Magnet, which I really want. Yes, I missed their sale.
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This may be my last year as a freelancer or on Elance – from here on out I plan on phasing out of the niche of budget writers (with few exceptions). I have to take on projects that will give me some space to breathe.

Click here to hire someone from Elance – it is a good place to hire from what I understand. You betcha.

Don’t worry. I’ll deliver the goods.

What about you?  What are your goals of 2011, and lessons of 2010?

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